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In this case I want to share about Men are from Mars and Woman are from Venus.
As we know that women and men have many differences, here I will share Man are from Mars and Women are from Venus according to the book by John Gray, Ph.D.
Different Emotional Needs Women and men usually do not know that they have differences. Sometimes they want something from a partner according to their own wishes, even though their needs are different, even though their way of thinking is different. Therefore they are sometimes upset if their needs are not fulfilled as expected. Men and women alike give love but not in the way they want. For example, a man if there is a problem usually he is alone does not mean he does not love her anymore but a man prefers to harbor the problem. Unlike women, she wants to be asked, heard or even with a man accompanying a woman when there is a problem that has made her more calm. By ignoring and giving space is the wrong way to deal with a woman's anxiety, she will be upset, and considers her unloved.In the book it is written that men and women have each of the six love needs. Men need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. Women need care, understanding, appreciation, dedication, validation, and certainty. Of the twelve needs of men and women here both actually need, but men and women have their own primary needs.
How to Avoid Argument
Arguments are sometimes experienced by couples. Suddenly they stop talking in a loving way and automatically start hurting each other: blame, complain, accuse, demand, hate, and doubt for some reason.
In this book, it is explained that Communication is the most important element in a relationship, arguments can be the most destructive element, because the closer we are to someone, the more easily bruises or bruises. In this book, it is recommended to split a short distance when arguing because it can be physical using an example of hitting. It's better to discuss what you want like honest and open.
That is from me. I hope you guys like it! Thank You so much for reading this.
In this book, it is explained that Communication is the most important element in a relationship, arguments can be the most destructive element, because the closer we are to someone, the more easily bruises or bruises. In this book, it is recommended to split a short distance when arguing because it can be physical using an example of hitting. It's better to discuss what you want like honest and open.
That is from me. I hope you guys like it! Thank You so much for reading this.
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